She decided she was gonna sleep with him after their third date and I didn’t really offer much in the way of advice since it didn’t seem like she was interested in having a real relationship with him.So they had a passionate night together and continued to text one another but something had shifted…Yeah, he was attracted and somewhat interested, but after sex was in the mix, he lost interest in pursuing things further.Why should he take her out on nice dates and wine and dine her when he can call her at 1 am when he’s feeling horny and get his needs met?
He was smart, successful, and a dead ringer for Bradley Cooper. They exchanged a few flirty messages and he asked her to go out on a Saturday night.But even still, I told her flat out that she slept with him too soon. MORE: Ask a Guy – Is Sex on the First Date A Relationship-Killer?It was a pretty open and shut case, probably one of the easiest relationship questions brought to me. The guy my friend was dating never really invested in her.When sex comes before a real emotional connection has been established, it’s hard to rewind the clock.The right time to sleep with a guy is when he has shown a level of investment in you. This doesn’t necessarily mean he calls you his girlfriend or said he loves you.Afterward, he has all the power.” I’ve told this to countless friends, both male and female, over the years and have been met with a resounding: “That is true!.” You can choose to agree or disagree, but there’s no denying that sleeping with a guy has a significant impact on the relationship and can either deepen it or turn it into a physical thing without an emotional leg to stand on.Before the date she told me she was a little unsure about this guy.She thought he was great on paper and all but she didn’t really feel like they had so much to talk about, she mostly just thought he was really hot.My friend told me that she was waiting for him to ask her out for that Saturday night because she had purchased tickets to a booze cruise and thought that would make a fun date.He usually asked her out for Saturday night no later than Wednesday and when he still hadn’t asked her out by Thursday she started to panic.