I usually only call or text him when I have something to say or talk about ya know? Am I being too demanding or is he just unreasonable?He says that I "smother" him, which is coming from a man who if I dont answer my cell phone he will call my house as well. He never wants to see me two days in a row, we just got in an argument about it last night. You can't make him feel the same way you feel about him.
He can't just tell me he enjoys my company and had a nice time - he tells me he loves me FOREVER and EVER and I'm his soulmate and he's never felt like this before and we were meant to be - blah blah blah. He is 54, and doesn't seem to want a life outside of me. For the first time since I was 17, I am free and single.
Every single time we have gone to a restaurant - he orders EXACTLY what I do. One day later he is calling and begging to come over and gets all hurt when I say no. He has me on a pedestal and I don't want to be there! I'm 45 and my last child just graduated from high school.
He is always wanting to be wrapped around me to the point I want to scream. Since we met, he has not been out with his friends once, but wants to tag along with me and my friends! I have told him again and again that I need my space and don't want to be with him all the time. I finally have to get bitchy and basically kick him out so I can have my life back. He's the needy, clingy, whiny chick and I'm the guy going "whoa there - not so fast!
When he wants to hang out two days in a row its okay, but when I say I miss him and I want to see him again he says he needs space and time to himself. We have broken up twice, and both times he said he changed his mind and wanted to work things out, so obviously he cares. Most people don't see how good they have it till it's gone. I'd say move on, he can't decide....loss not doesn't know what he whole "i think i want to be w/you but i don't want to commit" followed by a brief hiatus, then him coming running back w/arms wide open, crying and kissing and confessing that he was wrong to let you go...?
I think that he knows Im a good girlfriend, Im always doing everything I can for him, I treat him nicely and always with respect... But at the same time, he has told me that he doesnt know if he will ever feel "that way" about me. that's a hollywood-pap moment and nothing times, when i a guy plays you this way, he's just in it for himself; he has no idea of the torment he's putting you through, nor does he one's actions speak louder than his deserve better than that.