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He went with me to every biopsy and every rheumatologist appointment until my diagnosis was finalized (Sjogrens and a year later Lupus), asking a million questions along the way (usually many more than me).

I am now married to this lovely man, and he is truly my champion.

I have family and friends that have believed in me from the start and for that I am blessed. I think one thing to do is get rid of negative vibes.

I have lost allot but gained strength in the journey. For those that did not stnad behind you and still are so-so, just say " Next" It is unbelievable how strong we all can be when we have to.

Lupus is an auto-immune disease in which the immune system cannot distinguish between threats (like viruses and bacteria), and healthy cells and tissue.

As a result, the body produces antibodies that inflict cell damage, most commonly targeting joints, skin, kidneys and the nervous system.

Head over to this page: https://messageboards.webmd.com/health-conditions/f/lupus/2. Choose the tag from the drop-down menu that clicks most with you (and add it to any posts you create so others can easily find and sort through posts)3. Email us anytime at [email protected] Supposing I could have posted under "tips," a discussion seems more appropriate. My intentions are honest- I'm not asking for dating advice. Some of the comments I had gotten were very mean...I can't find it in my heart to let some of that go.But it wasn't until I was really okay with talking about it in general - not compaining, but talking - that I was able to find someone else who could be comfortable too. Wow reading this I realize once again how lucky I am to have Joe. , I told my fiance during our first phone conversation that I have Lupus. I think he loved the fact that I never lied or pretended to be something that Im not. Surely they could meet someone that is perfectly healthy "today" but as we know life can change on a dime.I told him 4 months after we met, we were just friends at the time, then a year later decided to give the relationship the shift to being a couple. He does not like the why lupus does me but he does not judge me by the illness. Then are men out there that are good kind careing people, you just have to take your time. Several months ago I started to lose some of my hair. Darn it Mom, I just hit a button and lost my reply! I divorced my husband who did not have a compassionate bone in his body when I got sick. So, you hold out hun for someone that IS compassionate because you deserve nothing less.We have just as many wonderful qualities as someone with good health.And I actually find us Lupies really kind and compassionate which I think is a great quality.We are not here to entertain others, only ourselves.So be each day what you ant to be and go to those who truly love you for support. I was first diagnosed with an "unspecified auto-immune disorder" at 22 after years of tests. I was devastated (we'd been talking about getting engaged), and, like you, tended to keep quiet about anything related to my illness. Basically, I found the way to talk about the illness with the men I was dating by learning how to discuss it with my friends.I had beautiful long, dark, curly hair, so did my fiance. But he saw my poor lil baldish head, he started crying, then he did the sweetest thing, he shaved off his beautiful hair just for me! I think that if you just be upfront, and true to yourself, and to your significant other then you will be fine with your relationships. There are nice men out there, we just have to be patient, and not settle.Yes, we have a disease, but we are "not our disease".


  1. Jun 30, 2011 It's tough! Listen in to this honest and open conversation about the ups and downs of dating with a chronic disease.

  2. WebMD discusses how chronic pain and fatigue associated with lupus can affect your sexual relationships -- and what to do about it.

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